Community Guidelines for Respectful Dating

Respect Identity Without Assigning It

Use the words and pronouns a person gives you. A bisexual identity does not establish interest in you, a couple, a threesome, or non-monogamy. A bi-curious label does not make someone available for an experiment on another person's terms. Let people describe themselves without asking them to prove an orientation.

Our pages welcome singles, couples, and adults with different relationship goals. You can decline a connection without demeaning its participants. Disagreement about compatibility is not permission to insult a person's identity.

Consent Has to Remain Freely Given

A yes applies to the invitation actually discussed. It does not automatically apply to a different person, a private location, sharing a photograph, or a more intimate interaction. Give people room to pause or change their mind. Silence, hesitation, and discomfort are reasons to slow down, not obstacles to overcome.

When a couple invites someone new, every adult needs a voice. Do not pressure someone to accept both partners, promise identical attraction, or tolerate undisclosed rules in order to keep a connection.

Privacy Includes Other People's Information

Do not publish private messages, identifying photos, phone numbers, or relationship details without permission. Discuss what a partner or date is comfortable sharing before telling friends or posting online. A relationship structure can be public to one person and private to another.

When someone is not out in every part of their life, protecting LGBTQ+ dating privacy includes thinking about who might see a message, photo, or introduction.

Be Honest About the Invitation

State your relationship status and relevant commitments before they affect another person's decision. Do not use a solo profile to conceal a couple invitation. Do not claim that an existing partner has agreed when that conversation has not happened.

People may change their goals, but changes should be discussed rather than quietly imposed. Whether you are considering couples dating or an open relationship, explain what you can offer before asking someone to take part.

Harassment, Exploitation, and Reports

Threats, coercion, impersonation, discriminatory abuse, and requests for money under deceptive circumstances are unacceptable. If conduct occurs on BiCupid, report it through the platform so its team can review the relevant account. BiCupid.date cannot moderate another service's members.

For website content concerns, use the Contact page. Describe the issue with private details removed. If someone is in immediate danger, contact the appropriate local emergency service.